Hello Friends!!
Just another day here in Paradise!! We are working another shift at Bernard Mevs Hospital today, pretty much because we are still here (yup….still here…) and they didn’t get the new shipment in of new recruits to the island. They say “nothing in, nothing out” which is pretty much right! We went to dinner at the United Nations again last night, knowing we could spend a little money, because we actually have a flight back home (yeehhaawww!!)
Its muggy as heck here today, probably like 90% and I have to say my skin loves it, but I sure don’t! The AC in our room is the only thing that works, ironically, and I didn’t bring a blanket to Haiti (who brings a blanket with 90 deg weather and 90% humidity???!! right??). Anyways, I shiver at night a bit and sweat all the day long. I love Haiti! Really its overall been a great experience and I would absolutely do it again (maybe in a few months though..
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We had a little 4 year old boy that finally passed away last night d/t a severe asthma attack. He was so bad off, nobody could get an IV in him after literally like 25 attempts. These are some of the very sad things we all have seen and heard of here. I’ve never seen quite so many people die in such a short amount of time. Its interesting, because the family pretty much has to arrange transport of their dead loved ones. And actually one time they weren’t very careful and in the middle of this huge open unit where all the patients beds are pushed up against the wall (there is zero privacy, literally) they were loading an elderly lady who had passed and dropped her right on the ground while trying to put her onto the stretcher. THAT was an awkward moment…and the Haitian nurse went over after to the guys and you could tell she just reamed them in french/creole!! My love for America and the cleanliness and amazing healthcare we have has definately grown and Im so grateful for all of our medical teams who train and go to school for so long to treat us. We are truly blessed to be in America. I also strongly feel when we are so blessed that we are obligated to bless those less fortunate as well. It keeps us humble and in check, so to speak, of our pride. Education is a novel idea here and costs so much. we have free schooling and I can’t stress how much more of it we all need and don’t take enough advantage of.
A group of us got into a political debate the other night at dinner and Jamie made a good point by saying “I love that this can happen. That we can argue and disagree and have our own individual opinions and we won’t get shot for saying what we believe, even if other people don’t believe it”. Its so true. Women here are very subservient to men and its strange when men don’t address you here, but the male in the group you are with. Quite obnoxious I have to say and how frustrating it must be for women who get beat for speaking their mind. We had a young girl, @ 18 years old who was actually “whipped” with a leather whip and came in for treatment after her husband assaulted her. she had bruises from head to toe and open lash marks on her arms and face. I was so mad. Was a good thing that guy didn’t come in after her, because who knows what I would’ve done. The violence in Haiti is high and disturbing. Retaliation is very common and they are quite brutal. Sometimes children are the innocent victims and it is truly upsetting.
The good things are when you meet the honestly good and sweet and humble people like our little “rastafarian friend”. We met him when he brought his wife in for abd pain, found she was anemic and pregnant and probably had a tubal pregnancy. He was so sweet, devoted and absolutely loved his wife, you could see it in his eyes how much. He had no money, but spoke pretty good English and said he had worked for the US military translating before. He was there a few days after his wife had surgery and would always come up to us saying “sista, sista”. He couldn’t pay, but when trucks with supplies came into the compound, he helped unload them, sweating heavily but complaining of nothing. He was always smiles and hope and so excited his wife was okay and that they could still have more babies later. He tried offering us 10 haitian dollars which we refused to take, but was so upset because he wanted to thank us somehow. I could never take this man’s money and only made him promise to keep being the lovely person he was and to take very good care of his wife and that is all the thanks we need. We were able to put him in touch with the translation group that works for the hospital and good luck, my rasta friend, for getting that job!!
We love the people here, all of them. They are a strong, resilient people who have lost so much, yet are so grateful for life. WE have on film a few of our Haitian co workers who sing. They have such beautiful voices and it is very powerful to hear them sing. They gather in the hospital in groups everyday to sing to the patients and their families and it always gives me goosebumps. We will post some on facebook when we return…
I’ve chatted too much, sorry for the long diatribe, but I better get back to work now…Take care and thank you all for your posts and chatter! Its been great hearing from home too. Janelle, good luck with school, you’re going to be the best teacher those kids could have! TO my work girls, you rock and we’ve created quite the reputation for the UCDMC staff here. We are told we are legends already!! I love working in the ER and I swear, team work makes all the difference. thanks friends for all you do. I love you all!! Flying home tomorrow, but will try to post a little. Viva Haiti and Viva America!!
Heather